Last nite had a long chat wif a fren n 4gt hw we gt on the topic of guys aft getting attached become zhong se qing you. N somehow i was reminded of a guy fren who is sthg like tat. B4 he was attached, he was rather nice 2 me. He wld call me once in a while, asking me out, regular chats on msn etc. The way he tok 2 me was at a comfortable level. In fact my impression of him then was q gd coz i find him v knowleageable n i learn a lot of things frm him. He likes 2 tell me abt politics stuff when he noes i noe nuts abt it. Of coz he incorporate his politics knowledge 2 our conversation was for a cause. Usually there's an underlying meaning he wanna convey 2 me aft knowing wat happened 2 me, on hw i cld haf handled certain situations or etc. Sometimes i get him, other times i dun. Tat kinda impress me coz my guy frens usually like 2 tok abt soccor or ns.
What i'm not happy was his changed of attitude aft he gt attached. He began to msg me less n didnt call me up anymore. Dun b mistaken, the reduced smses he sent me or the zero fone calls was not wat i mind. (Alrite, perhaps initially i wasnt used 2 it) Of coz i understand nw tat he is attached, most of his time will b devoted 2 his gal (i noe it happens to both guys n gals when they r in love) but wat i'm bothered is his attitude lor. He began to become hostile (hmm i dunno if hostile is e rite wrd) 2 me whenever we chat on msn n even like to use words such as "go n die lah" whenever i commented on sthg which in a way was opposing his idea. Okie e "go n die" part perhaps was his favourite line he enjoy using on me whenever we chat. I was unhappy wif the fact tat he come n initiate a msn chat 2 ask me sthg, n aft i replied, he used tat "go n die" line n twist e meaning of my wrds. Tat happened a few times. I gt fed up once which happened i'm in bad mood tat time n i told him hw unfair it was 2 make such accusations of me.. I mean if u come n initiate a chat wif somebody, will u irritate e person by twisting every wrd he/she tell u even aft explaining tat was a mis-interpretation made by him/her?
Well anyway, we r nw neither keeping in contact n is gd tat i dun c him in sch lately. Come 2 tink of it, i tink most of my guy frens whom i get along quite well r like tat. Our contact wif each other definitely have lessened coz they r busy wif their gal or perhaps they r afraid their gal will b jealous (hahaha!), but the thing is they dun treat me wif such drastic change in attitude. And i appreciate tat.
Welcome to mY wOrLd. My ThOuGhTs.
My RaMbLiNgS, mY rUbBiSh..
Thanx..
For being there when i needed u..
For listening w/o judging & knowing w/o asking..
For keeping even e tiniest secrets safe..
For making me luff, encouraging me..
For taking me as hu I am..
And for the many ways tat ur frenship has touched my life!
